Jokes hurt


I guess we all need jokes and we all like jokes. Though, we sometimes hurt people with jokes we make. People are different and they are of different sense of humor and they see things the different ways and that is why a joke that seems like a funny one for this person will be an offensive joke for that person. We hurt people with jokes we make even in case we really care about people and we never meant to hurt them. We may sometimes deeply and greatly hurt the one we care about in case there is something about his or her feelings or weaknesses. And that is why if kidding people should consider peculiarities of character if a person they are kidding. Though, those hurt should also know that one who made that joke never meant to hurt him or her and it is enough to say it is a bad joke and ask a person never make such jokes again. Though, still it is better to consider the words you say and think over the effect those have in order not to hurt the one you really care about and not to spoil everything with a stupid joke.

Are you laughing with me?


Humor is a good reason for people to become nice and funny friends. I know people who adore each other though they have nothing in common except a sense of humor. People meet each other and they learn more about each other and the whole conversation of these people is built on jokes and laughing. They laugh with each other and they laugh at each other and no one takes it as offence and they both like it. Indeed, they are good and easy going people who laugh easily even in case people are laughing at them. No one is perfect and we do stupid things and we do stupid funny things and so it is not a big deal if people laugh at us. A sense of humor is a good reason for people to become good friends who can laugh together at any problem they have. They support each other and they adore these relationships. I guess it is not the beauty a phenomenon to save the world but it is a sense of humor a phenomenon to save the world. The one who can laugh is the one who will never be baffled. Sense of humor makes people stronger and helps them overcome obstacles.

Meet anger with humor


It is all about relations between people and it is also about humans’ communication. Sometimes you meet people and you like each other and you have a great time together and a great conversation. But, there are times when you meet people that grow angry and alien towards you at once and they will try to piss you off for sure. They are people that are looking for the conflict and they will do their best in order to find it. And in case people of this kind have chosen you as a member of this conflict there is only best way for you to act in this case. You have to meet the anger of the opposite side with a humor. These people need your anger to build the conflict on and in case you give them no anger they will soon step back and calm down, besides anger takes too much of you but humor always gives something to you and never takes something of you. Meet the anger of your enemy with a smile and humor and you will make him or her confused and he or she will barely find something to answer you.

Exposing humor


Jokes are common and jokes are something that have to make people laugh and to improve their mood. Though, jokes may also be of exposing type, those are jokes about people and countries and famous people and so on and so forth. It is the common way for some people to reveal the sad truth. Though, they pronounce this truth as a joke because they see no another way or because it is the safer way. Though, the problem is that listeners never care about the sad truth of jokes and they care about laughing only. Even in case people hear jokes that tell them about the terrible truth of lives they have – they will still fail to notice that very core of a joke. They are laughing at everything. They are laughing at those problems they have, they are laughing at death and slavery and so on and so forth. They are laughing because in case they stop laughing they will have to face that ugly and stern truth. So, jokes may be of exposing kind but there are not much of those people that can really see and hear that truth. It is easier for people to laugh and forget about everything.

The books I found most humorous ones.


Hi! I thought about making a list of really funny good books and down here is what I have scrubbed out of my memory.

The funniest book where I was laughing at every page and the humor and the quality of literature was really high is undoubtedly William’s Saroyans’ “My Name is Aram” stories. If you don’t know about this author: he is a first generation American from Armenian family who lived in Fresno, California in the 1920-s. In his book of little stories he describes his childhood in Fresno in a big Armenian family within an American society which many times treats new immigrants not so welcome and how they cope with that. Really recommend that book to everyone!

Another great funny book in my opinion is “The Good Soldier Svejk and other strange stories“ by Jaroslaw Gashek. It has a kind of a little bit strange humor which needs to get used to but then it becomes very funny. The book is about a usual man from Check Republic who gets to the First World War. He is something like a Forrest Gump but living in more real world where not everything goes as cool as in the movie.

Also I like Jerome k. Jerome’s “Three man in a boat”. But I can’t tell this I a high literature or like this but it has many funny moments of what they call, I guess, English humor.

I would like you also to recommend me some funny good books!

Sarcasm?

Sarcasm is not humor. Sarcasm is a mask for anger while humor is a joyous expression of life and your view of it. Sarcasm is a tool of deflection while humor is inviting and welcoming. It’s important that you don’t mix up the two because humor is a true gift when it is used appropriately. Sarcasm is rarely appropriate and can sound mean and intentionally hurtful in just about any situation. Humor on the other hand can be used inappropriately, but will often be seen as a genuine attempt to be humorous rather than mean even if it wasn’t well timed or well placed.

Inappropriate humor, which is also known as sticking your foot in your mouth, plagues us all at one time or another. The important thing is that you recover from your verbal mishap and relinquish your embarrassment. Don’t try to cover on poorly timed humor with another. Just offer a brief apology and move on. It’s so obvious when humor is misplaced that it is easier to just acknowledge that your thoughts were poorly times, your humor unappreciated, and that you are still just you mingling in the crowd with a strong, albeit momentarily misunderstood sense of humor. Your funny bone will recover as will your pride the faster you move on from it. Forced humor in the wake of embarrassment is not a pretty picture. Just relax and go along with any change of topic available. Your next shot at your own humor will most likely be much more pleasant.

Help Your Man’s Humour

Step 1. First of all, investigate the diagnosis. As we see it, re-appropriate only if the man pathologically failed jokes, but it leaves no attempt of being said to be clown and witty. If your satellite quiet and hidden, it is likely to remain so, and treatment will not bring any good - everything is just the injury.
Step 2. Be patient and be sensitive. Among men, fear of being flat located somewhere between the fear of losing their jobs and the horror of losing potency.
Step 3. The first and most important rule: do not make comments in public. To outsiders, all are equal, except for you and him. Even if you feel terribly uncomfortable to hear, as favorite, unsuccessfully trying to joke in the company, be patient and polite smiles. The woman who makes comments to her husband with another’s people, under any circumstances, is not exactly wise.
Step 4. Observe the same time, whom to contact you with a nice jokes and funny stories - whether it is trying to impress the men’s part of the company? At present here, with the ladies? Comedy tastes of different audiences may differ materially. Try to explain that her husband (the evening, in a calm and relaxed atmosphere). Suppose he does not try to please all at once - is almost unattainable alternative, and the laugh of one or two friends is when in his very best.
Step 5. Gently friendly and ask where he draws his jokes? If you do not bring the Lord, from the collection of the 1988 release, he has no one can help … If he regularly surfs Internet in search of new jokes (and there really found some fresh and good jokes), then perhaps it simply a taste of leads, and in some mysterious way, it selects from the colorful diversity of other people’s humor most stupid, gross jokes.